Sustainability Begins With You
Sustainability Begins With You
This article has been 27 years in the making and is long overdue.
Water, the very thing that we are made of and expect to flow on command -- gone for many.
The type of thing that can feel like a thread unraveling an entire world.
A blinding reminder of the gravity of the times we live in and nature's ability to take us to our knees.
There was a time, that I would have been crushed by this climate related crisis. I would have used it to confirm there wasn't enough, and that by not preventing it, I wasn't enough.
Instead of being crushed, I'm activated, and inspired to serve in a way that is opposite of what we are told to do in the mainstream.
As a beauty brand who ships products around the country, and one whose industry is one of the top offenders in waste creation and resource consumption, it's important that we have this conversation.
Before we start, may I ask you a question?
How often do you feel beautiful, have glowing skin, and deeply love the woman staring back at you in the mirror?
Sometimes, always, never?
And, how many times have you bought products or fashion designed to help you feel beautiful, have glowing skin, and to love the woman you see in the mirror?
The beauty and fashion industry is built on selling us products to help us feel better. We are trained from an early age to look outside of ourselves and consume products that elicit emotions of belonging, enough-ness, and beauty.
A never-ending cycle of reaching outside of ourselves to feed the hungry ghosts of low self-value, and scarcity that we pray will be quieted by substances, objects and something new.
It’s this dynamic that is driving the perilous load on the world’s natural resources.
Imagine instead, that you had every resource inside yourself to attain these feelings you're seeking without buying something new… What would be possible then?
According to a survey from Savers Global Thrift, on average, every one of us is going to create 81 pounds of landfill waste with our clothes this year.
This does not include personal care items such as makeup, hair and skincare, which in my expertise, includes at least another 15-20 pounds.
Another study commissioned by Vaseline, showed that around the world, women throw away up to $100,000 in un-used and half-empty personal care in their lifetime.
I'm looking at you #skinfluencers with all the overflowing #shelfies.
Now, imagine what a pile of $100,000 + of bottles and jars looks like.
By the way, buying products from influencers without knowing what the ingredients do, or how to use the product safely, is rapidly increasing this number.
Sustainability especially when concerning beauty, is complicated.
The heart of the matter is a better future, but what we are doing right now is what counts.
This article by Teen Vogue does a great job of explaining the diverse dynamics, but I'm leading you another way.
Sustainability conversations, ESPECIALLY in the beauty industry, are almost always about supply and never demand.
The Teen Vogue article spells out the problematic nature of the #fashioncrisis but makes no mention of what's driving it.
Buying products we don't need, and don't know how to use, in order to feel better.
To fill a hole.
The number one way to reduce the amount of waste we are creating as humans, is to decrease our insatiable demand for something new.
It’s not sustainable to aspire to perfection or asceticism either. Extreme environmentalism is the other side of excess, and is scarcity with chapstick on.
Sustainable doesn't mean SCARCE and Scarcity isn't sustainable.
Resources can be scarce, but you don't have to be.
Scarcity feelings, attitudes and mindsets lead to overconsumption, and an inability to see yourself as whole, or part of a whole. Being scarce is being a hole not whole. And it's whole that we need to be, in order to come up with solutions for the challenges we face with resources drying up.
Why re-Sourcing is the way to wholeness and the answer to reducing demand.
Re-sourcing is connecting with the part of you that is divine, whole and infinite. So, what is Source? One definition of source is a generative force and the point of origin. Source is our Higher Power. The essence of who we are. God, the Universe, the voice within, the higher self, nature, love, awareness, the field, the super conscious...your definition is the only one that matters.
If we connected regularly to this source and re-sourced ourselves, what would our consumption choices look like then?
As you consider that, let me take you back to 1994. I was pregnant with my son, and I attended a lecture given by Helen Caldicott, Australian physician, author and speaker, about climate change and China’s growing economy.
27 years ago, I sat in a tiny gymnasium, in a rural village, and heard about the very things that are, in fact, happening today.
The weather, the water shortages, and the global impact. I went home feeling shocked and was inconsolable about the state of the world and what my son would be born into.
I cried, and cried and cried.
Even though I was living off the grid in a solar home, did cloth diapers without a washing machine (let that one sink in) and didn’t use tin foil or paper towels, I still felt hopeless and like it would never be enough.
This feeling of dread and hopelessness was not fixed by being perfectly green, and having a zero waste footprint. And neither was the world.
As everyone marched by consuming and denying, I slowly tagged along.
By the time my son was 5 years old, I had swung to the other side. Shopping addictively, and looking outside of myself to dull the pain of not feeling enough.
I still recycled, and kept an eye on packaging, but I went mainstream with the rest.
Consuming whatever I felt would fill my well, not paying attention to the hole, where all my enough-ness was running out.
Despite the resources I consumed, the source I sought eluded me. What I eventually realized is this wasn’t a resource problem.
This was a problem with my source.
And, most of all, on my part, this was a scarcity problem. It wasn’t until I started cultivating a deep, inner sense of being enough, and connecting with my purpose and my inner WELL-th and worth, did my behaviour and choices change.
Researchers have known for some time that consumerism is linked to self esteem. We consume in ways that are consistent with our sense of self. In other words, it’s exactly the feeling of not enough that fuels the sales of market goods.
Fast fashion and fast beauty in particular, is motivated by trends, and the never ending cycle of needing something new. The cults of social media personality and celebrity spin out new skincare and cosmetic lines like a faucet left wide open.
New product lines that purport to be "sustainable and green" but that are filled with empty promises and end up in the trash.
It is my belief that spending time re-sourcing yourself, is the single most greatest thing we can do for the environment. Once I started cultivating a relationship with my source, by looking within, I broke the cycle of buying products from the feeling of not enough and needing to fix myself.
By needing less, I was buying less, and that is more powerful for the earth than a healthier supply chain.
Reducing demand is more powerful than improving the supply chain every time.
When we are re-sourced from within, we have greater ability to seek solutions.
Starting with our own individual buying motivations is the first place to begin. Consumer choices on an individual level can create global change.
We must stop consuming and start choosing consciously.
My commitment is to have products that work better, and last longer. I'm moving my business model to kits, including technological tools that will allow you more results with less products, so that you aren't blindly buying products that aren't essential.
I'm also creating educational content with a foundation of consciousness, so you can learn how to re-source yourself on a daily basis, along with clean, concentrated, consciously created, and small batch formulas.
This will allow you to get off the beauty matrix hamster wheel and opt-out of aging and consuming as usual.
I don't have all the answers but what I do know for sure is- all or nothing-isn’t sustainable.
Making many small changes and choices from a place of consciousness and respect for resources is a great place to start and can create massive change.
Learning to re-Source is perhaps the greatest gift you can give to yourself and this beautiful planet we call home.
I invite you to incorporate these practices as a way to conserve, preserve and renew your connection to Source.
And wouldn't ya know it, it will help you renew, regenerate and restore more deeply too!
The first place to start your re-sourcing practice is to audit your daily routine and review your nature and consciousness practices.
I recommend a short morning routine, at the least, a mid-afternoon nature break, and an evening ritual too.
Meditation, religious practices, mirror work, mindfulness, and visualization are all considered consciousness connectors.
Nature, could be as simple as standing outside with your arms up to the sky and silently saying THANK YOU.
Say NO to fast fashion, fast beauty and question trends.
Before you buy any product intended to make you feel or look better, ask yourself, if you are buying this to fill a hole or to incorporate into your whole.
Explore buying high-quality items from a designer that is local to you.
Question each new purchase that you bring in. Does it add to your life, or take away from it?
Is it a multiplier or a diminisher for the earth?
Only buy personal care that you LOVE and that is produced by a company with values you share.
Products that are used, and loved aren't wasted, but products that are half- empty or just thrown away hurts everyone.
Practice feeling appreciation and gratitude every time you drink, use or experience water. This means every glass, every load of laundry, every dish washed, every shower, every jump in the ocean, every product applied.
Acknowledge your footprint, and consciously decide to lighten it.
Choose lightness every day.
THANK YOU, WATER.
THANK YOU, MOTHER EARTH.
THANK YOU, SOURCE.
This is Conscious Beauty-- it begins with sustainability and sustainability begins with you.